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Lynn SumidaAs the weekend comes upon us I am excited to go to our next basketball game leading to the NBL championships. Tickets are selling fast and the organization says it is going to be a full house! This is very exciting for all of us who are fans.

Before going to the game though I am putting the final touches on a program called “ Take Charge of Your Life” which I will be presenting at the Canadian Counseling and Psychology Association as a pre-conference session on Monday next week.

The Take Charge program has been developed by William Glasser International and is designed to help individuals focus on their own mental health. It also gives an introduction to Choice Theory. It is a program designed for those who are certified to be able to use to help others.

I just heard recently that this program is now available to go online so I may do one after everything settles down this month. It is a very big month for us with Certification May 24-27 followed by the first level of the Practicum Supervisor Program, My 28,29.

Just before starting all this training, Lynn Sumida who is coming in to assist me with the training, has agreed to do a public evening on Demystifying the Myths of Success. She has been an entrepreneur for over 30 years and she will be sharing some of her insights and experiences. There will be an opportunity to do some networking as well.

If you are near Moncton and surrounding area, you might want to join us for what I believe will be an inspiring evening. Here is the link for more information and to buy tickets.

https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/demystifying-the-myths-about-success-an-evening-for-entrepreneurs-leaders-and-professionals-tickets-61500376281?fbclid=IwAR0ZHpzfTfHiHZ8hs4LhiBfIhXTkA7XdqhmUZIFrOD-ECqSEQvzvcPLDuQ8

Yours in growing awareness

Maureen

 

 

 

Over the weekend I was saddened to hear about 36 new cases of gonorrhea found in my home province over the last month! In 1984 under the leadership of Brenda Robertson, the Reproductive Health Clinics that later became sexual health centers were opened to serve youth between 12 and 24 years of age.

In those days we started out by serving the parents and offering them help to talk with their youth about healthy sexuality. I worked in this role for over twenty years. Since my retirement in 2004 the center has disappeared. One wonders why? There are my factors to consider.

Every 10-20 years we have a new generation and there are some things that just do not change. One of those things is our biological urge to be involved sexually. Like it or not we are all sexual beings, yet each generation seems to want to bury their heads in the sand and with each generation comes more and more access to sexual information.

IF EVER THERE WAS A TIME FOR CONVERSATIONS IT IS NOW TO HELP OUR YOUTH GET ACCURATE GOOD INFORMATION !

My generation was the first to see Elvis wiggle his hips and someone thought it was prudent to only see him from the waste up. Today we have visual pornographic pictures everywhere! What are you doing to help your youth?

We cannot afford to let these diseases that are entirely preventable destroy lives. Beside leading to pelvic inflammatory disease, and infertility in men and women, these diseases will eventually kill. Over the generations we have become more and more resistant to antibiotics for these diseases as well.

Adults, dig your heads out of the sand and talk with your youth. Teachers are saying they do not have the training to deal with the subject. It is your responsibility as parents to educate your youth and have the difficult conversations.

In 2016 I updated a book for parents who want to talk with you about sexual relationships. It is a manual that explains how to have the conversations with teens and yes even adults who have experienced divorce find it useful. Choosing a Quality Loving Sexual Relationship is the title.

You can get a copy of my book here: https://www.amazon.ca/s?k=Choosing+a+Quality+Loving+Sexual+Relationship&ref=nb_sb_noss

Madness

March madness is upon us yet again! This means many things to many people. As I get older I see a lot of March madness all around me. First let me say, I love the March madness when it comes to the NCAA basketball that culminates to the final four the first of April. It is a busy time for the teams and fun to watch. The same is true for our NBL Canada.

The other March madness I am referring to are things like, the horrific shootings that we are seeing right now. I know they are not necessarily related to March but they are about madness! My heart goes out to all the people who have lost loved ones.

On a little bit lighter note, there is the time change where people are feeling cheated out of an hour’s sleep. Research is even showing every time we change from one time to another, there is evidence of an increase in heart attacks, interrupted sleep and other health issues. This was something that was started for the farmers who comment that it is no longer an issue for them. I vote for staying with Daylight Saving Time.

Then there is the madness around the end of winter and the beginning of Spring. Spring hits this week and here in Eastern Canada we still have four feet of snow. People are tired of it all and complaining too. Yes, March is a little Mad.

All this being said, we still have lives with responsibilities that need to be taken care of. What is most important is how we deal with all the madness around us. Do you focus on what is out of your control? What about focusing on what is in your control? In reality, if we can focus on that over which we have control we will be much happier. So how do you learn to let go?

We can help with that in our Choice Theory Training Programs. Almost everyone who has taken the training says it is the most valuable training they have received to date. It is a program of personal freedom and empowerment. The end of April is our next in-person training with Douglas Jones, Senior Faculty of William Glasser International. Learn more about the program and Sign up here: www.choicetheorytraining.com

Yours in growing awareness

Maureen

 

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The last month, I have been writing blogs about toastmasters. It is one of the projects in my pathway program, designed to not only help promote toastmasters but to help people get comfortable with the idea of writing blogs in their own business. Have you ever thought about doing blogs? It is easier than you think.

My particular path is called: “ Motivational Strategies”. At level four I have several projects to choose from such as: Building a Social Media Presence, Create a podcast, Run Online Meetings, Public Relations Strategies to name a few. I chose to do the blogs since we have a membership drive this time of year. Yes, we want you to join us!

Did you know that there are now 11 Paths in the Pathways Program and there are five levels to each path. There are many recognition badges for work completed along the way. Let me see if I can spark your interest by naming the paths:

Dynamic Leadership

Effective Coaching

Engaging Humor

Innovative Planning

Leadership Development

Motivational Strategies

Presentation Mastery

Persuasive Influence

Strategic Relationship

Team Collaboration

Visionary Communication

As you can see, the opportunity for learning is vast. You have opportunities to expand your horizon and help others do the same. It is a safe and fun place to learn, try new things, and get effective feedback that you choose to implement or not.

What are you waiting for? Join us this Monday evening at Sobey’s in Riverview, New Brunswick at 7pm. Just visit and check out the meeting. See if this is something you would enjoy.

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Heath J.

In my mid-30s, I made a life-changing decision to return to university. I sold my house and my car and moved to another country with my partner. It was all in pursuit of a dream career as a university professor. The problem? It made me miserable. Back in Canada for a few months, I sought out Maureen’s counsel. The decision was difficult for me: spend another two years studying something I disliked in a foreign country, but get closer to my dream job, or stop studying and pursue an alternate career path. Maureen never pressured, never judged. She taught me about choice theory, and helped me to identify and manage my insecurities. I found her to be a trustworthy, friendly voice of reason in a difficult, trying time.

I stopped my university studies, and a month later accepted an extremely fulfilling job as a college instructor and department head. I have the job I would have wanted, even if I had finished my degree. I feel happy, challenged and fulfilled. My personal relationships have also benefited from my certainty of choice and confidence. Maureen helped me find my way, and I am grateful for her wise counsel.

Heath J., Moncton

Barb

I thank you for all the opportunities and support you have given me over the many years of our friendship.

My relationship with you and Choice Choice theory has constantly guided and directed my life in a positive direction. The ability to change my thinking enriches my life each day. It helped me survive during the days of my deepest grief. You love your life and all those you have helped love you!

Barbara Rombough

Liette M. Collier

Choice Theory is a powerful life-changing tool. Its language has become a part of me and brings shared-awareness to my family and friends, clients, group participants, and work peers alike. Once we acknowledge the power of choice, that we own it, and that the impact of benefits and consequences alike are ours, we become not only empowered but also released from limiting beliefs and false boundaries.

Liette M. Collier

Robin Sauve

Maureen is a true expert in Choice Theory. She finds a way to apply relevant, practical applications of the theory into real life. Through coaching, Maureen invests a lot of time with her clients, making sure we consider all options. She is an excellent compassionate guide in this journey called life.

Robin Sauve, Marketing Manager

Wholesale & Specialty Products at Irving Oil

Carleen Glasser

Maureen is an outstanding faculty member of the William Glasser Institute! She has expertise in so many areas of the helping professions her contributions to the well-being and happiness of countless people of all ages is truly commendable. If only they could clone Maureen the world would be such a better place!

Carleen Glasser, CEO William Glasser, Inc.

Senior Faculty, Glasser Institute

Laura Prisc

I have been blessed to work with Maureen for several months, as my personal coach. She has skillfully facilitated my personal growth by asking the kinds of questions that require me to dig deep and get to the root of my beliefs, which sometimes hold me back! She provides very perceptive insights, and leads me through a process that drives me to more clearly define my wants, needs, and desires, along with actions I am committed to taking to move myself closer to the vision I hold for my future. I look forward to continuing this journey with Maureen, and highly recommend her as a teacher and coach. If you have the opportunity to work with her, do not hesitate for a second -- just say YES!less

Laura Prisc

Founder at Leadership & Life Potential, LLC

Owner, La Teraz

I have known Maureen as a counsellor, always really coaching for almost 20 years. I know very few people with the integrety and consistency that I have seen in the last two decades. Maureen has been teaching and guiding people in making choices for as long as I can remember with a professionalism and knowledge that is admired by other counselors in the city, including myself. When we host our own team building programs at La Teraz, even though I have training in the field and followed her courses in Choice Theory, I call her and her partner to facilitate the group's segment on Choice Theory. When I need to get honnest and reliable feedback, she is one of the primary people I consult in my own business to get the right questions asked to help me make my own choices to reach my ideal world in business. I not only accept to offer a recommendation I am honoured to refer her as one of the best in her field.less

Owner, La Teraz

Business Development Consultant

Rachelle Daigle

Met Maureen many years ago during a difficult life transition. She was recommended to me and I have been grateful for the connection. Through her teaching of Choice Theory she provides clarity, direction and empowerment to act. I have since been recommending her to anyone I know who is in need of her type of services. You can go see other couselors for months and start to feel better or you can go see Maureen and get direction within a few visits. the results last a life time. 
Love what you do Maureen!less

Rachelle Daigle

Business Development Consultant

Richard Chartrand CFP, CHS, CLU

Maureen is a warm person who is passionate about making a difference in the lives of the people she works with. She is very knowledgeable in her field and much can be learned from her! Maureen thank you so much for a great and "ah ha" filled training, you are a great instructor and such an inspiration. The reason I took this course is because of someone who you taught in the past, which i think says a lot. I felt so comfortable, and your enthusiasm and passion made me want to pay attention to every word. I so look forward to continuing on this journey! Jill Wakelin

Richard Chartrand CFP, CHS, CLU

Helping Financial Advisors (Heroes) Change Lives Forever!

LA Teraz

I very much agree that this training is of utmost benefit to anyone in counselling and in business and sales, I will decline, as i believe it so beneficial that I went for the full certification last year. Maureen is an excellent trainer and I benefited so much with her support, not only in certification, but in all the previous years of knowing this amazing coach. Wishing everyone the best experience in choosing to open this new door to understanding human behavior and choices

LA Teraz