Moncton Reality Therapy Consultants

Creating a world where people experience "Happy Relationships"


Today I experienced the wonderful opportunity to share breakfast with a group of retired Public Health Nurses.  Everyone is involve in various activities, from travelling, to spending time with grandchildren to working a little.

Someone looked at me and suggested that I was “ still working” to which I replied that “no I am not”. But we see all your posts and your promotions and the training and writing that you do! I laughed and said: “ I am living my retirement dream!”

You see I started planning for my retirement from public health in the early 90’s. Not that I did not enjoy my job at the time but with early retirement I could choose who I want to work with and what I want to do. You see in a government job I was limited in what I could do and who I could work with.

I had a dream of working more with adults as most of the problems the youth I was working with came from the adults in their lives! I was helping youth to take charge of their lives by learning how to interact with the adults around them, how to take responsibility for themselves and get more of what they wanted.  It was wonderful but what if we could prevent the need for all these youth to need so much help emotionally.

I love what I do and do not see it as work. However, last evening I listened to a young counselor speak about a local counseling center for youth.  The youth do not need to pay for services but now there is a wait list of about 80 youth. For me this is unacceptable.

The question is, how are we as a society letting our youth down? Why are so many having so many emotional issues? How is it that their needs are not being met? Are we so busy we don’t have time for our youth?

We all know that 90% of emotional problems are directly related to a significant relationship in our lives that is not the way we want it to be. It could be a parent, a grandparent, a teacher or some other significant person in our lives.

When I was working with youth, a lot of them had difficulties in school, saying no one really cared about them. All they wanted was good test scores and they could not see the sense in what they were being asked to learn!

The youth of today are our future. What are we doing to support them, help them grow through adversity and success? Are we listening and paying attention? They have the same basic needs as adults.  Are we truly there for them or do we spend our time criticizing?

Yours in growing awareness



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The main highway is washed out and the other roads are shameful. Over 400 people came out last week to highlight the seriousness of the problem and to speak their truth. It made the front page of our local paper.  The people are concerned for the need for emergency services that may be needed in a hurry.  

This is a community about 20 minutes from Moncton but I had a chance to experience their frustration on Saturday. As grandparents we were excited to go and see our grandchildren perform in a skating show at 11am. We were told to allow at least an hour to get there.

We started out the Pine Glen Road, which is a major route to get there. It is a road that we had often travelled on our motorcycle that was in pretty decent shape but not this time! I could not believe the ruts, pot- holes and washouts at the side of the road. Part way out the highway there was a construction site , where only one lane could go at a time.   We sat there with about 25 other cars waiting our turn. 

Eventually, we got to Dawson Settlement Road that would take us into Hillsborough. It too was full of bumps, potholes and ruts. It was a very bumpy ride and we were driving an SUV supposedly made to travel over terrain like this.

I had heard that a youth was hurt in a hockey game and that the paramedics were so busy trying to hang on in the back of the ambulance, they could hardly tend to him.  He was not so seriously injured but I sure do understand now why people are so concerned.

My grandchildren were in a second show that evening. Ordinarily I would have been there a second time to see them but this particular night, Doug needed to be back for a gig he was volunteering for.  I just felt too overwhelmed and nervous to drive on those secondary roads by myself so I did not go.

Sometimes people tell you what is happening. Sometimes we read about events in the paper but until you actually experience them, you really do not have the awareness of what is actually happening.

A greater awareness is always useful. I am now 100% behind the people beyond the washout who are fighting for a quicker fix to the highway. There is way more to the story but just gaining the awareness personally, hopefully I can add my influence to help this urgent situation.

Yours in growing awareness



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Yesterday started out with yet another day trumped by mother- nature.  At first I thought I would not get dressed for the day but I realized I would be talking with people online so I had better look good!

That started me thinking about how far we have advanced with technology. It is not that long ago that we found it hard to believe we would be able to see and talk with someone at the same time on our phones! Incredible really.

That brings me to relationships. We have all this technology and we are a world that has exploded with technological advances but not so much with relationships. When I see posts about increase in Domestic Violence, Sexual assault and abuse, I know we have not advanced anywhere near enough with our relationships.

That is why I am so passionate about teaching about how to have a great relationship! Nearly everyone who has ever taking the Choice Theory and Reality Therapy training can attest to how much it has improved their relationships.  Ideas are sometimes easy to understand but not so easy to implement.

With our training, you will have the opportunity to practice the new ideas you have learned and begin to feel confident in your newly acquired skills.  And that is not all, you will  have the opportunity to continue with further training as you see fit!

The program is offered in safe, comfortable surroundings and is 100% guaranteed that when applied it will benefit all your relationships.

I have decided to extend the deadline for Early Bird Registration until, February, 19th at  midnight. Sign up here: www.choicetheorytraining.com

or contact me for another method of payment at maureen@monctonrealitytherapy.ca or by phone: 506-386-5868

Your in growing awareness


I am going to do this workshop but I am worried that people will take my stuff and use it and teach it themselves! This is a statement that I heard and read about no less that three times this past week. I find it fascinating that we want to teach our information but we don’t want people to share it!

Why bother putting it out there if what you really want is to keep it for yourself?  In fairness, when I first started out teaching certain subjects I had that same concern but over time I learned that if we really want to have an impact on the world we need to let people run with whatever material we can give them.

A mentor of mine and leadership GURU , John Maxwell says, these ideas are written here for your use. Use them and teach them and when you start out give me credit for the ideas but soon you will become so comfortable with them you will own them and I am ok with that.

This is what a good leader does.  I learned a long time ago that I would rather give the people my information so that at least they have a guide that was given to them.  No one can teach your material like you can but they can use it, practice with it and share it with others.  I have also learned that a great many people collect the information and keep it for themselves.

This is why when you do your Basic Intensive in Choice Theory, Reality Therapy, Lead Management/Quality Schools with me you will receive a binder with a lot of handouts that you can take back to your workplace and begin to use immediately. I will even give you a copy of my power point slides electronically once you have completed the first level of training. I expect you to share, share, share.

That being said,  my next training program is March 8-10 and normally the fee is $602 but until February 15, 2017 you can register for the crazy price of $497.00. But this rate is only good for another week.  I guarantee that you will walk away from this training with a new way of thinking. Register here: www.choicetheorytraining.com

Yours in growing awareness


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Heath J.

In my mid-30s, I made a life-changing decision to return to university. I sold my house and my car and moved to another country with my partner. It was all in pursuit of a dream career as a university professor. The problem? It made me miserable. Back in Canada for a few months, I sought out Maureen’s counsel. The decision was difficult for me: spend another two years studying something I disliked in a foreign country, but get closer to my dream job, or stop studying and pursue an alternate career path. Maureen never pressured, never judged. She taught me about choice theory, and helped me to identify and manage my insecurities. I found her to be a trustworthy, friendly voice of reason in a difficult, trying time.

I stopped my university studies, and a month later accepted an extremely fulfilling job as a college instructor and department head. I have the job I would have wanted, even if I had finished my degree. I feel happy, challenged and fulfilled. My personal relationships have also benefited from my certainty of choice and confidence. Maureen helped me find my way, and I am grateful for her wise counsel.

Heath J., Moncton


I thank you for all the opportunities and support you have given me over the many years of our friendship.

My relationship with you and Choice Choice theory has constantly guided and directed my life in a positive direction. The ability to change my thinking enriches my life each day. It helped me survive during the days of my deepest grief. You love your life and all those you have helped love you!

Barbara Rombough

Liette M. Collier

Choice Theory is a powerful life-changing tool. Its language has become a part of me and brings shared-awareness to my family and friends, clients, group participants, and work peers alike. Once we acknowledge the power of choice, that we own it, and that the impact of benefits and consequences alike are ours, we become not only empowered but also released from limiting beliefs and false boundaries.

Liette M. Collier

Robin Sauve

Maureen is a true expert in Choice Theory. She finds a way to apply relevant, practical applications of the theory into real life. Through coaching, Maureen invests a lot of time with her clients, making sure we consider all options. She is an excellent compassionate guide in this journey called life.

Robin Sauve, Marketing Manager

Wholesale & Specialty Products at Irving Oil

Carleen Glasser

Maureen is an outstanding faculty member of the William Glasser Institute! She has expertise in so many areas of the helping professions her contributions to the well-being and happiness of countless people of all ages is truly commendable. If only they could clone Maureen the world would be such a better place!

Carleen Glasser, CEO William Glasser, Inc.

Senior Faculty, Glasser Institute

Laura Prisc

I have been blessed to work with Maureen for several months, as my personal coach. She has skillfully facilitated my personal growth by asking the kinds of questions that require me to dig deep and get to the root of my beliefs, which sometimes hold me back! She provides very perceptive insights, and leads me through a process that drives me to more clearly define my wants, needs, and desires, along with actions I am committed to taking to move myself closer to the vision I hold for my future. I look forward to continuing this journey with Maureen, and highly recommend her as a teacher and coach. If you have the opportunity to work with her, do not hesitate for a second -- just say YES!less

Laura Prisc

Founder at Leadership & Life Potential, LLC

Owner, La Teraz

I have known Maureen as a counsellor, always really coaching for almost 20 years. I know very few people with the integrety and consistency that I have seen in the last two decades. Maureen has been teaching and guiding people in making choices for as long as I can remember with a professionalism and knowledge that is admired by other counselors in the city, including myself. When we host our own team building programs at La Teraz, even though I have training in the field and followed her courses in Choice Theory, I call her and her partner to facilitate the group's segment on Choice Theory. When I need to get honnest and reliable feedback, she is one of the primary people I consult in my own business to get the right questions asked to help me make my own choices to reach my ideal world in business. I not only accept to offer a recommendation I am honoured to refer her as one of the best in her field.less

Owner, La Teraz

Business Development Consultant

Rachelle Daigle

Met Maureen many years ago during a difficult life transition. She was recommended to me and I have been grateful for the connection. Through her teaching of Choice Theory she provides clarity, direction and empowerment to act. I have since been recommending her to anyone I know who is in need of her type of services. You can go see other couselors for months and start to feel better or you can go see Maureen and get direction within a few visits. the results last a life time. 
Love what you do Maureen!less

Rachelle Daigle

Business Development Consultant

Richard Chartrand CFP, CHS, CLU

Maureen is a warm person who is passionate about making a difference in the lives of the people she works with. She is very knowledgeable in her field and much can be learned from her! Maureen thank you so much for a great and "ah ha" filled training, you are a great instructor and such an inspiration. The reason I took this course is because of someone who you taught in the past, which i think says a lot. I felt so comfortable, and your enthusiasm and passion made me want to pay attention to every word. I so look forward to continuing on this journey! Jill Wakelin

Richard Chartrand CFP, CHS, CLU

Helping Financial Advisors (Heroes) Change Lives Forever!

LA Teraz

I very much agree that this training is of utmost benefit to anyone in counselling and in business and sales, I will decline, as i believe it so beneficial that I went for the full certification last year. Maureen is an excellent trainer and I benefited so much with her support, not only in certification, but in all the previous years of knowing this amazing coach. Wishing everyone the best experience in choosing to open this new door to understanding human behavior and choices

LA Teraz